There are difficulties to surmount with a SEVEN. You appreciate each other’s honesty, but this person can be ascetic where you are aesthetic. It will be difficult to get to the bottom of this person as they get caught up in the world of thought and spirit, whereas you prefer the real flesh and blood side of things, a more domestic and artistic spirit of life. A SEVEN is very challenging and yet still enticing of course!
They really do need time alone and can be quite shy, which is a fact often misunderstood and interpreted as aloofness by other people. You are an excellent host surrounding yourself with friends and family, and any attempt to draw a SEVEN out might meet with an even more stubborn withdrawal on their part from you and everyone else!
The common ground between you falls in an area of love of architecture and cultural pursuit, however the SEVEN is not as good at communicating admiration and approval as you are, and in the end it will be their failure to express what’s on their mind and your mutual reluctance to say what each of you wants that will probably cause the problems. Enjoy the scenario, but don’t be surprised if you decide to give up.